"It's kind of like when you're on a plane... They tell you that in case of an
emergency to put the oxygen on yourself first, rather than your child
(or whoever). It seems counter intuitive because you want to help people
in their time of need, but if you pass out you can't help anyone. Ya
I've said it before and I'll say it again because I am still trying to get this down...in order to love others well you must take time to love yourself well. It's so simple it's the hardest thing in the world. Let's all try, just once more...